January 11, 2009

The 31st Date!

Hello fellow daters!

Here is the answer to that question you have all been asking, "How will you CHOOSE?"
Well, if you have been reading, you will notice that I have run into a big problem. Unfortunately, every single man who I have met over the last month is incredibly amazing and I would be a very lucky woman if any one of them asked me out again.

So. I am going to need some help! On Friday morning (February 13th), I have plans with a kind gentleman to have date #30. After our date, I will write about it and post it on the site.
Then, I will post a poll that includes only the men who will be AVAILABLE for a date on the 14th. I have asked each one of them about their plans and a bunch of them won't even be able to make it on the 14th (so hopefully I will be able to see them again some other time!).

The poll will be open from Friday late afternoon until early Saturday morning (12am EST/3am PST). Poll results will be hidden.
The announcement of "who is number 31" will appear on television Saturday morning.

My Valentine's Day plans are underway and will be a bit of an extravaganza, breaking our beloved $31 rule.

So who would do you think would be a suitable date for Valentine's Day?
Your vote will count for two-thirds. I will weigh in for the remaining 33%.

If you have any questions about any of the men or if you would like to cheer on any in particular, feel free to email me. I might even post some of your thoughts here on the site.

Thank you again for all of your support!


Esplendor Havanese said...

I will be in Hawaii and wont be able to vote officially.
Knowing that my #1 is out of town, I still hold to
1) Tyler
2) Jonathan

That said you have to go with you gut girl. When you do have a few minutes who is it that you think about most???

Anonymous said...

I still like Juan-Carlos, Jonathan and the 21-year-old! Love, Mom

Anonymous said...

I'm not going to make my decision until this week's guys are posted! There may be a gem in there somewhere and I have a feeling you are probably saving the best for last!

Anonymous said...

I know who I will vote for but I'm not telling.

Kate Smylie, said...

Going to Florida so I will miss the voting

Here are my top two

Jonathan and Jared

Good luck

BUT I think you should choose - not the public

Or maybe this just keeps you from choosing?

Nope I think you need to choose.
Besides you are the one going out with this guy. So you need to be the one to like him ;)

Anonymous said...

I love Evan.... He is a good choice. When I read about his date it gave me chills.

Anonymous said...

I think the decision is a simple one. So far, it seems that you have only gone out with 1 real person. Derek. He seems real and didn't fluff any stories about who he is or what he has done to impress you or anyone else. Some of the other stories are just absolutly absurd.

Anonymous said...

It has to be Evan! The best "tell" is what a man is like without a lot of planning. He's perfect.


Unknown said...

Tamara, you choice my friend. This has been a fantastic ride through the 30 dates, many interesting men, but you should choose!

Marissa said...

I vote for Evan. Just cuz!

brit said...


Unknown said...

OK--I really have to tell you that this is one clever idea. Loved the daily blog!

I think I would go with EVAN! He was so easy for you to be your real self with! He made you have a good day at the end of what sounded like a stressful day!


Anonymous said...

How can you decide???
1)I love Nick, he is my type of guy...fun, interesting and the entire experience (apt. hunting, shopping, testing mattresses) so fun!
2)Evan is also great, and what a gentleman to pay for your cab fare and go on a date at the last minute. Not to mention the secret spot at Columbia was a nice surprise. I don't know Tamara, you've got your work cut out for you! Too many great men out there to name! Congrats on getting to the end of this project! It has been so much fun reading about your dates!

Anonymous said...

Due to Nick's unavailability, I had to go with a close second...Evan. To his credit, he was the front runner until Nick (with whom you should definitely have more fun with, IMHO) =)

Have a great time on Date #31. Can't wait to read all about it!

Rebus said...

Hmm, well as i was never on your dates...i can only say, choose the one that best suits the goals and characteristics you have set for yourself. the one that is most interesting and who will teach you to be a better you...even if its for a little while. over all have a great time..happy valentines day, babe!

truly, it has been mind broadening reading your experiences, making me rethink many points of conflict within myself. thanks, tam! :)

Anonymous said...

Derek, hands down...sounds like he can dance, that alone is worth checking out on a second date.

kimmy girl said...

adam! adam! adam!

Anonymous said...


Anonymous said...

Evan without a dout! He sounds like the sweetest guy ever!

Anonymous said...

Greetings from Italy !!! I stop by 2 wish you 2 lucky people a sincerly " Good Luck and many years of happiness !! "


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